We have all perceived something different about the same thing
Meaning nothing is actually real
For how could something be real, when it is different for someone else….

Read something that has been said by one of the Quantum Sobriety Online Programme members over on the very lively private forum:

“Well, I’ve got say I’m feeling very smug with a big smile on my face. I came back yesterday from a fantastic retreat with Jo and the amazing team at inner guidance. Today I hosted a party…..I did this completely sober and enjoyed every minute of it. I would normally have been stressing about everyone enjoying themselves and have been on my second bottle of wine by the time they arrived. But I’m now in bed leaving them to finish off and so pleased that I had the tools to deal with it. I wasn’t triggered at all and I was happy to drink my fizzy water. Also everyone was understanding and supportive, which is something I’ve been worrying about unnecessarily. Actually once they’d started drinking they didn’t give a shit about the fact I wasn’t. I have gone to bed before them, is that a rude thing to do? Or is it self care?” 
Residential Retreat and Online Member