“Understand that boundaries are about self-regulation and self-love, rather than anything against the other person.”

It’s time to stop blaming everyone else
It’s time to stop blaming our situation
Nothing is going to change until WE decide that it’s going to
And just as Lee says above and member ‘L’ says below, WE must take responsibility; it is no ones job to get us into the place where we can put healthy boundaries up, OTHER THAN OUR OWN
Nothing is going to change until WE decide that it’s going to
And it is the inner shift that comes FIRST, before we see anything change in our outer world….